15 SECRETS OF THE
RICHEST PEOPLE
By Wes Waddell
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Would you like to realize your goals? Maybe you'd
like to run your own business, expand your toy collection, or
succeed in the movies. There is no one path to the pot of gold at
the end of the rainbow, many people, of all backgrounds have
successfully found it.
Whether you want to follow the ways of the great
stock traders, the famous rock stars, or the dynamic entrepreneur,
there are common modes of behavior each of them followed. And in
many cases, they have shared their secrets so YOU CAN FOLLOW IN
THEIR FOOTSTEPS.
The ancient wise man, Zenrin, said, "If you wish
to know the road up the mountain, ask the person who goes back and
forth on it." What better way to know the secrets than to ask
someone who’s already been there?
What goals do you want to achieve in your life?
What amount of effort are you willing to commit? You may want money
for the good things in life, money to build a racing empire, or
money to support yourself while you pursue a movie career.
Maybe you'd like to take the risk and start
something new in your life. You may want to open your own business,
devote your energies to an artistic career such as singing, or reap
the benefits of your hard work with fabulous vacations several times
a year.
What is it that makes you happy? What form of
success are you looking for? People today are not only seeking
financial fortunes, but also the ancient goal of peace of mind.
Do you worry? You might be concerned about your
health or your family's health. You may be anxious about the
increased expenses of higher education, medical bills, or the steady
increase of your cost of living. Did you know that there are ways
out of the endless cycles of worry, stress and anxiety? Right now,
YOU can rise above the flurry of survival to achieve the
accomplishments you dream of. When you're ready to put your whole
effort into realizing your goals, YOU WILL SUCCEED.
#1 - WHAT ARE RICHES
"Had I but plenty of money, money enough to
spare," wrote the poet Robert Browning. And money is the greatest
attribute of riches. A universal desire, money is the
materialization of riches, the stuff that makes the rest possible.
But, the rest of what?
Are you looking for financial security? For
retirement, for education or leisure? Riches are the overflowing
abundance of material possessions - houses, cars, boats, furnishings
- everything you ever wanted.
Centuries ago, Horace wrote, "By right means, if
you can, but by any means, make money." Because he knew that for
many people, it is a path towards happiness, a cure-all for worry
and peace of mind.
For others, riches come in the form of
satisfaction and personal independence. That satisfaction comes from
accomplishment in your job or attaining goals. It’s that feeling of
contentment and confidence from doing something really well.
Riches are closely linked with success. And with
that comes fame and recognition. Success might be the feeling of
well-being from the rewards of your effort. Or the enthusiasm and
vitality triggered by award or recognition itself.
Producer, Norman Lear said, "Success is how well
I enjoy the minutes."
Throughout history, the people who lived with
riches most often achieved them by hard work, diligence and a belief
in themselves. For some people, it took courage, genius and stamina.
But for many others, it took nothing more special
than the burning desire to turn dreams into reality. Whether you
want millions of dollars, recognition as an artist, or personal
freedom, you have the ability to make your life as rich as you want.
Think about what you most desire. It may not be
hard cash, it may be what it can buy. Or it may be those feelings of
inner satisfaction, from creating something where there was once
nothing.
You may want personal independence from the
workweek, no more Job! You may just desire the freedom to live
anywhere you want. You may be looking for something meaningful and
significant in life - something other than things money can buy.
Whatever your goals, and however difficult they
seem to be to accomplish, you have the ability to become who you
want. Take a look in the mirror - can you see yourself surrounded by
riches?
Picture the world open and in front of you, ready
to become the form of your dreams, ready to stage your every desire.
Or, as Shakespeare wrote, "Why then, the world's mine oyster,"
"which I with sword will open." You see, Shakespeare knew, even way
back then, that once you force your mind open to the endless
possibilities of the world, that success will follow.
#2 - EXACTLY WHO IS SUCCESSFUL?
Many people who achieve fortune in the world are
not born rich. But they accomplished it through hard work and a plan
of action.
Every type of person on earth can become
successful. There are saints and scoundrels; philanthropists and
thieves; poets and politicians; young and old. There are no
limitations or physical boundaries for success.
Success simply comes to those who think about
success and strive for it. Although many rich businessmen at the
turn of the last century had no formal education, they overcame that
and went on to great fame.
Henry Ford, Thomas A. Edison and Andrew Carnegie
to name 3. Even in our own time, Michael Dell, the founder of Dell
Computer and Bill Gates of Microsoft, the wealthiest man in the
world, never finished their college education.
Some people strive towards a single goal from
early in life, and often attain that goal while still young. Others
are willing to risk new adventures later and still attain success.
"It's never too late to learn," wrote Malcolm
Forbes, the money magnate. "I learned to ride a motorcycle at 50 and
fly balloons at 52."
I, myself learned to fly at 39 and became a
commercial rated pilot at 42.
Whatever your task, whatever your obstacles, you
can be as successful as anyone else. Study the people who
accomplished recognition in the areas of your pursuit. Find out how
they achieve their goals!
And don't be afraid you don't have what it takes.
As Daniel Webster wrote, "There is always room at the top."
#3 - FORMING CONVICTION
The single attribute that every successful person
has is the single-minded devotion to attain a goal. "There in the
sunshine are my highest aspirations," wrote Louisa May Alcott, "I
can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow
where they lead."
What are your desires? How can you form them into
definite goals that you can attain? Lawrence Peter wrote, "If you
don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere
else."
Maybe you're studying a craft or skill. Perhaps
you're caught in the rat race of corporate America. Or, you might
feel held back by your family and the environment around you.
Which star are you reaching for? "Ours is a world
where people don't know what they want and are willing to go through
anything to get it," wrote Don Marquis.
Take the time to think about your own
aspirations. Look inside to find what feels right. Throughout your
life, almost everyone entertains the notions of fame and fortune,
but few put on the costume that is what you can become.
Conviction requires certain qualities of action.
You must be sincere and be willing to assume responsibility. And you
need the self-discipline necessary to work towards your goals.
Are you prepared to achieve your dreams? Can you
clearly see their reality in your mind? Will you devote your entire
being to attaining what you want?
#4 - ON YOUR OWN
Most millionaires are non-conformists. They are!
So are the most famous actors and actresses; and the most prominent
artists. Writers are known for their individual traits and
eccentricities.
Your convictions and your goals are your own
business, even when you find help along the way. Mentors often take
people under their wings to nourish and teach. Spiritual guides may
show you the path to attainment. But YOU are on your own to actually
achieve.
You must cultivate a sense of justice and an
ability to make decisions. Cooperate with everybody and develop your
own self-respect. Follow good criticism and advice only after you've
judged it carefully for yourself. The millionaire J. Paul Getty
said, "I advise young millionaires to be skeptical of advice. They
should advise themselves; they should form their own opinions."
Lord Byron wrote, "There is rapture on the lonely
shore." Meaning that if you attain your goals with poise and
sincerity, you'll find warmth and love at the top - not the cold
loneliness pictured by the jealous.
Put on blinders to negative comments and
criticism meant to hurt you. Why? As Voltaire wrote about those who
criticize, "Never having been able to succeed in the world, they
took revenge by speaking ill of it." In other words, it’s only those
who never succeed that speak harshly of success.
#5 - SEIZE THE DAY
People are judged by what they think and what
they say. But the true measure of their character is what they do.
Anyone who has ever achieved success and fortune in the world has
done it by action.
William Jennings Bryan wrote, "Destiny is not a
matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be
waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."
The choice of the path you follow is often put
before you as opportunity. "Few people recognize opportunity," said
Cary Grant, "because it comes disguised as hard work."
Don't let your opportunities slip past while
you're still considering them, and always create new ones as you see
them. "Wise people make more opportunities than they find," so said
Francis Bacon.
What opportunities can you act upon today, right
now? Dell saw a need for small inexpensive computer and opened the
online store that now grosses billions. Gates started licensing a
small software application he sold from his garage, and saw the
opportunity to make money from an operating system that became in
high demand.
All successful people the world over have FOUND
the opportunities for their own special talents and acted upon ideas
that lead to ways to achieve their goals. Why wait for the time to
pass? There's never a better time than now.
"Sometimes," wrote Lewis Carroll I believed as
many as six impossible things before breakfast." Take your own
impossible dreams and make them become reality.
#6 - HOW THEY THINK
Thousands of potential millionaires are born
every year. And making a million dollars is becoming easier for
everyone. So, what advice did those that became the money-makers of
the last century follow?
Aristotle Onassis worked eighteen hours a day to
maintain his fortune. He started as a welder and aimed for the top.
He said, "You have to think money day and night, you should even
dream about it in your sleep."
John D. Rockefeller, Jr., said, "I believe in the
dignity of labor, whether with head or hand; that the world owes
every person an opportunity to make a living."
And J. Paul Getty acknowledged his hard work: "I
have no complex about wealth. I have worked hard for my money,
producing things people need."
Even Proverbs advises: "In all labor there is
profit."
Richard Bach, the author of the best selling
"Jonathan Livingston Seagull" wrote, "You are never given a wish
without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to
work for it, however."
And, finally, the Empress of the British Empire,
Queen Victoria, admonished, "We are not interested in the
possibilities of defeat."
So, how do millionaires think? They think that if
you wish to succeed and attain your goals, you’re going to have to
work at it.
#7 - DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES?
There are qualities of effort and triumph that
are common to many people who make it to the top. The following
questions are a guideline to self-fulfillment and attaining your
goals.
1. Do you prefer to work for yourself more than
for others?
2. Are you well-informed on current business and
political affairs?
3. Are you a leader?
4. Do you take advantage of opportunities that
you create?
5. Do you pay attention to what other people say?
6. Can you finish a job even when it is difficult
or unpleasant?
7. Are you challenged by problems?
8. Do you have a goal you want to achieve?
9. Do you consider other people in your
decisions?
10. Do you strive to attain your goals?
11. Can you obey commands?
12. Can you bounce back after defeat?
13. Do you believe in yourself?
14. Can you stand by your actions in spite of
criticism?
15. Can you follow instructions?
16. Can you respond to the needs of others?
17. Will you give credit to others?
18. Can you make your own decisions?
19. Are you determined?
20. Are you truly ready for success?
Do you know all the right answers? Let’s go on
and see if we were right.
#8 - ESTABLISH A GOAL
What do you want? Are you looking for financial
security, professional acknowledgment, spiritual attainment? Do you
want to fit better socially, or become more expressive creatively?
Establish the goal that's right for you.
Then turn that goal from a dream into a desire.
Feel it! Need it! See yourself in possession of it! If you want to
realize that goal, don’t just wish for it. Aesop said, "Beware that
you do not lose the substance by grabbing at the shadow." Know
exactly what you want, then take actions and go for it.
Don't be tricked by your own procrastination -
especially if you want to achieve something artistic. The writer
Thomas Wolfe wrote, "I had been sustained by that delightful
illusion of success which we all have when we dream about the books
we are going to write instead of actually doing them. Now I was face
to face with it, and suddenly I realized that I had committed my
life and my integrity so irrevocably to this struggle that I must
conquer now or be destroyed."
Don’t get so lost in the dream that you fail to
act in reality towards its success.
Can you see what you want? If you want the
abundance of material wealth that money provides, what goal will
give you that money? Do you want the prestige of owning your own
business? What business do you want to begin? Today!
Where are the opportunities for you? Talk to
everyone in the business you want to join. Make friends in the
literary or art societies in your area. Read books and articles
about your field of choice. How can you attain your goal?
"If you don't want to work, you have to work to
earn enough money so that you don't have to work," wrote Ogden Nash.
And isn't that the way" Money makes money; success breeds success.
Just not always. How can you break through those limits to help
yourself to the rewards you desire?
Henry David Thoreau wrote, "I have learned this
at least by my experiment: that if you advance confidently in the
direction of your dreams, and endeavor to live the life which you
imagine, you will meet with success."
Think big and visualize success. Do you see
yourself in a big house? Maybe you picture your artwork hanging in a
gallery. Can you feel your book in print and in your hands? How does
it feel to be a person of success? Believe that you are; believe
that it is in your grasp. That's what the others did, and that's how
people make it to the top.
Then get down to basics. Be precise. Exactly
how much money do you want, and by what date? And exactly what are
you going to do to earn that money? Be realistic, but give yourself
short-term goals. Break the big dream into smaller chunks that you
work your way through.
Write it down. In six months or one year, you
will have how much money. And repeat it until it feels good and
becomes part of you. Then repeat it twice a day until it swirls in
your subconscious, until it becomes your one-minded goal.
"The goal stands up, the keeper stands up to keep
the goal," wrote A.E. Housman.
#9 - KEYS TO SUCCESS
Make people feel at ease. They will respond to
your needs as you respond to theirs.
Share the spotlight. Give credit to those who
deserve it - and to those who strive. Don't grab praise away from
other people.
Have confidence in your own value. Don't do
anything that won't credit your own self-respect. Follow up your
actions as they reflect your own self-worth.
Listen well to others' comments. Then weigh your
own actions. Cultivate relationships with people who have positive
and important things to say.
Participate in life. Be active in business
meetings and events; volunteer to be part of organizations and
groups. Social interaction will boost your sense of well-being .
Feel worthy of your own goal. Know that you can
attain it and that it is right for you.
Grasp your own challenge. Don't give yourself
impossible goals, but always reach higher.
Relax and be yourself. Each person is different
and just as wonderful as the next. Don't worry about what you think
others think of you.
Don't bathe in success - use it. Once you achieve
your first goal, don’t stop, go on to others. Use the money you earn
for the rewards you look for. Then go on to the next goal.
Be slow to criticize others' achievements. Find
out how they did it and learn from them.
Never use deception. Don't go behind someone's
back. Speak your mind and earn respect.
Banish negative thoughts and traits. Restructure
your life to exclude bad habits.
Believe in yourself and what you are to
accomplish. All the power in the world is within you to achieve.
#10 - WORK TOWARDS YOUR GOAL
"To get profit without risk, experience without
danger, and reward without work, is as impossible as it is to live
without being born," wrote A.P. Gouthey. Every person who has
attained something worthwhile has had to work for it.
Cary Grant said, "I do believe that people can
do practically anything they set out to do if they apply themselves
diligently and learn."
Which path is the right way towards your goal? Do
you need more education? Do you need a few years experience in your
field of business? Maybe you need a teacher, a guide or a mentor to
help you practice.
"I have learned that success is to be measured
not so much by the position that one has reached, as by the
obstacles which are overcome while trying to succeed," wrote Booker
T. Washington.
What obstacles are in your way? If you consider
them as easy to pass through as a bird through the air; if you take
each obstacle on as a special challenge placed especially for you;
if you approach it with intelligence and courage, then learn what it
has to teach… success becomes the adventure of a lifetime.
"Success is a journey," said Ben Sweetland, "not
a destination." And, for many, the process of attainment is the
journey itself. They move on, keep growing and expanding. While the
waters may be calm deep below, there is no still water at the top.
"The message from the moon is that no problem
need any longer be considered insoluble," wrote Norman Cousins. And
you can attain anything that seems impossible, if only to others.
As long as you believe it can be done.
If you have a problem that needs to be solved,
sit calmly and consider it with a clear mind. Observe all the
consequences of the actions - both good and bad. Ponder the paths
and actions and contemplate the core of the problem. The solution
will appear.
"Ask and it shall be given you; seek and ye shall
find; knock and it shall be opened to you for everyone who asketh,
receiveth. He that seeketh, findeth and to him that knocketh, it
shall be opened."
Tap into your inner self and encourage positive
actions. With each outgoing breath, release the impossible; at each
incoming breath, inhale the attainable. Demand the best of yourself,
but don't despair from an overused sense of perfection.
What can you learn? And who can teach you? Can
you attend classes and seminars from universities or seminars near
home? Check out books from the libraries and absorb the material.
Find a master and become an apprentice.
"Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at
twenty or eighty," said Henry Ford. "Anyone who keeps learning stays
young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young."
Never stop learning; never stop growing and
expanding as a person and in your personal endeavor.
"The purpose of learning is growth, and our minds,
unlike our bodies, can continue growing as we continue to live."
Mortimer J. Adler
#11 - ASK YOURSELF
As you consider the success you desire, you need
to affirm its possibilities and develop the self-confidence
necessary to attain the goals. Learn to do things well. The
philosopher Gurdjieff wrote, "If you know how to do one thing well,
you can do everything."
Ask yourself the following questions:
Are you truly ready for success?
Is what you are doing now helping you to achieve
your goals?
Do you weigh the consequences before making a
decision?
Is this the best use of your time?
Do you cooperate with everyone and help cultivate
their best potentials?
Are you warm and sincere?
Do you have the courage to succeed?
Do you have the self-discipline necessary to
achieve your goals?
Do you have a realistic sense of self-worth?
Do you give more than you take?
Do you have the courage to fail, and then pick up
and try again?
Can you assume responsibility without blaming
others if things go wrong?
Are you strong?
Can you be sympathetic to life and its sufferings?
Can you say no?
Will you follow your convictions and plans to
achieve?
Do you sincerely want to achieve the goals you
have chosen?
If you’re not sure of the answers… ask a friend
whom you trust. Better to succeed with the truth than to fail in a
lie.
#12 - TAKING RESPONSIBILITY
Winston Churchill wrote, “The price of greatness
is responsibility." How about you, are you willing to take the
responsibility once you attain the success you now desire?
"The deepest personal defeat suffered by human
beings is constituted by the difference between what one was capable
of becoming and what one has in fact become," wrote Ashley Montague.
And the greatest tragedy is to become less than your full potential,
using less than the abilities you possess.
Are you waiting for something to happen? Maybe
you're waiting for a job offer, or a promotion. Perhaps you're
waiting until you get good enough at a craft or skill to set out on
your own. Or are you waiting for the inspiration of creativity to
strike you like lightning in your life?
The real truth, is that it’s up to you to take
the actions and be responsible for their consequences. "Our
responsibility: every opportunity, an obligation; every possession,
a duty," wrote John D. Rockefeller, Jr.
Inspire yourself. Read books that will spurn you
to action; talk to people who have the energy you admire. How would
you like to lead your life? And make the changes necessary to be
like that. "There is nothing permanent except change," wrote
Heraclitus. What changes do you want to make? What are you waiting
for?
#13 - ACCOMPLISHMENT
What actions will take you closer to your goals?
Decide on the needed steps and write them down. Review them until
you feel comfortable with the completeness of those steps. Then
repeat them at least once a day, crossing them off as you accomplish
them.
"I believe there is no escape from the rule that
We must do many, many little things to accomplish even just one big
thing, this gives me patience when I need it most." James Dupont.
The most rewarding accomplishments are those that
take long to achieve and present many difficulties. It is only
through these difficulties that a person can rise above the rest to
be the unusual, the outspoken and the well-deserved.
As if building a kit, follow your own
instructions. Men really can follow directions… Just decide your
best courses of action and achieve their benefits. Whether the steps
are small or large, make them achievable and then do them. Don't
commit yourself to things that you never intend to do.
"Even if you're on the right track, you'll get
run over if you just sit there," this from Will Rogers. Don't be
paralyzed by inaction; rather act upon your own convictions.
Set yourself up for rewards. Don't give yourself
goals that have no feeling of satisfaction or no monetary rewards.
If you want to be an artist, be the best and learn from the best.
Don't dwell on imperfections or the awkwardness of unpolished
skills.
If you go into business, do it for profit or
reinvestment. "In business, the earning of profit is something more
than an incident of success. It is an essential condition of
success. Because the continued absence of profit itself spells
failure," said Justice Brandeis.
Marchant wrote, "To be a success in business, be
daring, be first, be different." Think of ways to achieve the best;
systems to increase productivity or decrease overhead. Profit is
your drive.
"Profitability is the sovereign criterion of the
enterprise," wrote Peter Drucker. And, profitability is the core of
any achievement - whether financial or artistic.
Once you achieve your goals, think of ways to
benefit others. "Money-getters are the benefactors of our race,"
said P.T. Barnum. "To them we are indebted for our institutions of
learning, and of art, our academies, colleges and churches." How can
you benefit humankind and still keep enough to fulfill your own
desires?
#14 - THE HIDDEN ASSET
Not all success can be counted in dollars; not
all richness is measured by money. "The great secret of success is
to go through life as a person who never gets used up," said Albert
Schweitzer. "Retire upon yourself and look for the ultimate cause of
things inside you."
Look within yourself for the ultimate
inspiration, and follow the true feelings you discover. "One of my
favorite methods is to whisper," said Alfred Hitchcock. "I've
discovered the best work is done with sweet reason."
Act upon your own conscience -that guides; that
judges your actions and signals your behavior. "Conscience is the
inner voice that warns us that someone may be looking," H. L.
Mencken.
Accomplish what you desire; fulfill your inner
yearnings. But don't compromise your deepest feelings.
"We do our best that we know how at the moment,
and if it doesn't turn out, we modify it," said F.D. Roosevelt.
Follow the paths that life offers you and live
the fullest existence you can. If you find yourself on the wrong
path… change path’s!
#15 - TAKE A LOOK
Look at yourself and look at those who have
succeeded throughout history. Do you have what it takes? Even if you
have only a few of the qualities of the other great people, you can
achieve your heart's desire.
Reach for the highest, then reach higher.
Accomplish your steps one by one on a daily basis, always moving
forward, always making progress. Encourage yourself. Insist that you
can succeed and affirm these thoughts daily.
Keep a sense of proportion and judge for
yourself. Then keep busy at the tasks you've set out to accomplish.
What's keeping you? As Albert Einstein told you "Genius is one
percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration."
Find inspiration wherever you can. Talk to
people; read about people; learn your business or craft. Believe
that you can do it and you will. The only way to dispel the doubt
that you can do something is to finish it.
Always be the best you can be. Never fall short
from fatigue or laziness. Don't attempt to do anything that you
can't give your all to.
There is no way to inner satisfaction without
appealing to the higher consciousness. Search within and without to
find the paths that are meant for you and follow them with
conviction and a steady heart. In doing this, you will succeed to
become as rich and as full as you ever desired.
One Final quote, Sophie Tucker sums up everyone's
worldly outlook when she said: "I've been rich and I've been poor,"
she said. "Rich is better."
What do you say we all go out and start making
ourselves feel better?
Want to make it on the Internet
or in any business? Then you need to take the above advice and put
it into action. The sooner the better!
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